The Toddler Dance

  • Yesterday, on the Internet, I saw a video of a mom coming out of a 10-day COVID-19 self-isolation.
  • Waiting for her was a toddler doing what can only be described as a happy dance, arms raised, feet and legs pumping up and down.
  • When she saw her momma, she ran to her and threw down a whole-body hug.
  • Which made me remember when the Teenager was a wee lass.
  • Those whole-body hugs toddlers dole out are literally the best feeling in the whole world.
  • And remembering them made me sad.
  • Because she doesn’t do that anymore.
  • Now days, I get that side arm, half-hug/half lean away thing.
  • I’ll take what I can get, obviously.
  • There are a lot of teenagers who want nothing to do with their dads.
  • But … hugs recharge your batteries.
  • Or for me they do, anyway.
  • Did I just admit to being a hugger?
  • Strike that from the record, please.
  • A friend of mine has a couple of daughters, one in college, one at Booker T.
  • He likes to say, “These days won’t last.”
  • Life is melancholy, sometimes.
  • For all the chaos and frustration, it can still be deep, meaningful, and beautiful.
  • You don’t get the good without the bad.
  • So savor …
  • Ugh. I just turned into a self-help meme.
  • Suck the marrow out of life, kids.
  • I read that somewhere.
  • In a book.
  • With pages.
  • And speaking of pages, I’m at about 160-ish in To Kill a Mockingbird.
  • I’m reading it slowly, trying to savor it, I guess.
  • No more than a couple chapters a night.
  • I admire her patience as an author.
  • Giving over chapters and chapters to character building with the plot just kind of slowly building in the background.
  • I don’t have that kind of patience. More of a pulp writer, I suppose.
  • I’m getting into the weeds.
  • Need to be deliberate about finding more ways to slow things down a bit.
  • Here it is Friday and all I can remember about the week is homework with the Teenager and the condensation drain line on the A/C stopping up and flooding the bedroom.
  • Have I told you guys the saga of my move?
  • No?
  • Well, best not to start now.
  • Thematically, it’s akin to Tom Hanks’ The Money Pit.
  • Kinda.
  • “These days won’t last.”
  • Okay, let’s link out on a high note.
  • The benefits of running just one mile every day.
  • Today’s working/writing soundtrack.
  • Plan your Halloween-season reading list accordingly.
  • Eight ways to improve your mental performance in the morning.
  • Also, still savoring Ted Lasso.
  • Roy Kent is my spirit animal.
  • And that’s all I’m gonna say about that.
  • Try to enjoy your non-90-degree weekend!

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